Your only mistake is taking that ragebait comment seriously in the first place. Bows have nothing to do with children. They are used all over the place as a decorative element.
They aren’t a common decorative element in mens things (unless you count like, bow ties), and work boots generally don’t have decorative elements at all. But they’re still a pretty common decorative element, outside of use for children.
Ok. So bows are seen on women’s things and childrens’s things. And sexism almost always involves stripping agency and the infantilization of women. And you are unable to make this connection…why exactly?
I mean, I don’t see bows on young boys things. I see them on women’s things and young girl’s things. The connection is to femininity, not childhood.
If I’m not mistaken, bows used to be a lot more common on (rich) men’s clothing. But, similar to the high heel, has mostly fallen out of fashion in masculine fashion.
yes. that is a common take from the angry feminist crowd who have extremist takes and think everything anyone does is a product of their internalized misogyny or something.
what’s so funny is they don’t seem to understand how their takes are active reinforcement of those same things they tend to be against… and their views are incredibly sexist and reductionist… but hey THEY ARE DOING IT FOR FREEDUMB from gender oppression so it’s totally cool if they hypersexualize people… and children.
The patriarchal society we live in finds natural body hair on women to be grotesque. The norm in this society is for women to remove their body hair in order for their bodies to resemble, at least in this aspect, those of prepubescent children.
Yes bro, I shave my manbush because I want to be mistaken for a preteen boy, not because it’s unpleasant, unhygienic, and I hate cleaning up pubes from the bathroom floor, or any other practical consideration.
Unless you identify as a woman and/or are a fem presenting nb or ajacent, what was written wasn’t intended to be inclusive of you.
You can shave your manbush for whatever manreasons you manlike. But I get the feeling though that you probably very much mandislike seeing women with hairy legs.
How often do you see women walking around with their fully natural hairy legs on display?
I get the feeling we might be talking at cross purposes here, just to clarify, could you please briefly explain what you believe the terms ‘patriarchal society’ and ’ social norms’ to mean?
You’re asserting that society demands that women remove their body hair to look like kids.
You won’t take an argument that there’s a billion reasons for that action, and reduced half the human population to one will that only you happen to be able to fully know.
That’s very clearly not the reason though, as those same beauty standards emphasize post-pubescent secondary sexual characteristics a lot too (big boobs, hips, butts, full lips).
The common thread seems to be just a way to hyper-differentiate from masculinity. In this patriarchal binary beauty standard, the most non-masculine woman is the same as the most feminine (assuming they also have those secondary sexual characteristics, otherwise you dip into androgeny). Basically, if you already have feminine qualities, then less man=more woman. It’s why tall or more muscular women are seen as less feminine, not because they aren’t childlike FFS.
Men have more body hair, therefore manlier men are hairier, and by extension the more feminine women have the least body hair.
Patriarchal society values youth and beauty in women above all else, and the older a girl gets, the hairier she becomes.
Individual aesthetic reasons for hair removal on female bodies are valid, but these choices are still being made within the society we live in and are often still made in order to conform to it.
I’m not so quick to immediately jump on the “omg it’s pedophilia!” bandwagon. It’s lazy and needlessly inflammatory. If everything is pedophilia than nothing is pedophilia. That’s a charge we should reserve for very rare occasions.
Certainly not when the null hypothesis works just fine. Male and female beauty standards are cultural, but they’re not completely arbitrary. They’re mostly just exaggerated versions of actual physical sex differences. Women on average have fuller lips than men. So we wear lipstick to accentuate this. Men tend to go bald more often, so women’s beauty standards contrasts this by tending towards long and highly styled hair. Men traditionally go for short haircuts or no hair at all, again accentuating male secondary sex characteristics. Women on average tend to have less body hair then men. So women’s beauty standards tend to encourage its complete removal.
Beauty standards are subjective, but they’re not just pulled arbitrarily from a hat. No one ever sat down one day, spun a big wheel and said, “ok, by spin of the wheel, women have to shave their bodies but get to have long hair!” Beauty standards are largely just exaggerations of actual biological sex differences.
I didn’t mention pedophillia. The only people bringing up pedo shit are the ones who haven’t understood what I wrote and are angry because they saw the word ‘patriarchy’.
The norm in this society is for women to remove their body hair in order for their bodies to resemble, at least in this aspect, those of prepubescent children.
YOU LITERALLY DID! And now you’re trying to weasel your way out of it by saying, “well, I didn’t explicitly use the word pedophilia, I just implied men are attracted to the features of pre-pubescent children.” There is a word for an adult that is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children. That word is pedophile. You are literally arguing that female beauty standards are pedophilic.
No, you’re just making a lot of assumptions about people without actually knowing anything about the stuff you seem to think you’re an expert on. “patriarchal society” doesn’t want women to look prepubescent, people just have preferences for about 1 million different reasons, that don’t necesarily have anything to do with pre pubescence. By blaming patriarchal society, you’re insinuating that men are the problem, and that men in general want to fuck children. So I will say again, fuck off, and add, get a grip.
I never said any of this. Literally nothing I wrote implied any of the stuff you are saying here.
All the dumb fucks bringing up man hating and pedo shit, are the people who got triggered when they saw the word patriarchy and forgot how to fucking read.
Man, now everybody knows my secret to being able to drink water. It taste disgusting but if you imagine it’s sweet sweet piss then suddenly everything’s gravy.
Your only mistake is taking that ragebait comment seriously in the first place. Bows have nothing to do with children. They are used all over the place as a decorative element.
I dunno’, I’ve heard much wilder takes said in complete earnest.
There are some genuinely jaded and dumb people in the world who will say all sorts of shit and mean it.
Some of those people appear to be in this thread right now lmao
How many men’s steel toe work boots have you seen sold with a big happy bow on them?
You’re right. Women’s workboots demonstrate this unfairness. Men deserve bows on their panties too.
I just want a decent pair of boxer briefs with little red hearts on them
Anatole France is spinning in his grave.
They aren’t a common decorative element in mens things (unless you count like, bow ties), and work boots generally don’t have decorative elements at all. But they’re still a pretty common decorative element, outside of use for children.
Ok. So bows are seen on women’s things and childrens’s things. And sexism almost always involves stripping agency and the infantilization of women. And you are unable to make this connection…why exactly?
I mean, I don’t see bows on young boys things. I see them on women’s things and young girl’s things. The connection is to femininity, not childhood.
If I’m not mistaken, bows used to be a lot more common on (rich) men’s clothing. But, similar to the high heel, has mostly fallen out of fashion in masculine fashion.
At least in my social environment, bows are not a kids thing. Feminine, sure.
Uh…no it isn’t, are you serious? His other is thinking she does buy those, and assuming that any of them do. That’s probably a product image.
If you want to get into it, you go to body hair removal. Adults have body hair. Children do not.
Wait, do people seriously think that the beauty standard that has women remove body hair is because men want them to look prepubescent??
yes. that is a common take from the angry feminist crowd who have extremist takes and think everything anyone does is a product of their internalized misogyny or something.
what’s so funny is they don’t seem to understand how their takes are active reinforcement of those same things they tend to be against… and their views are incredibly sexist and reductionist… but hey THEY ARE DOING IT FOR FREEDUMB from gender oppression so it’s totally cool if they hypersexualize people… and children.
What exactly am I doing then when I shave my armpits as a man? I’m so confused, help me!
shaving ur armpits as a man means 🥚
No, pretty sure that’s not it. It must be something about repressing women!
The patriarchal society we live in finds natural body hair on women to be grotesque. The norm in this society is for women to remove their body hair in order for their bodies to resemble, at least in this aspect, those of prepubescent children.
Yes bro, I shave my manbush because I want to be mistaken for a preteen boy, not because it’s unpleasant, unhygienic, and I hate cleaning up pubes from the bathroom floor, or any other practical consideration.
like that it gets itchy/uncomfortable AF when you work out? nah, that can’t be it.
Unless you identify as a woman and/or are a fem presenting nb or ajacent, what was written wasn’t intended to be inclusive of you.
You can shave your manbush for whatever manreasons you manlike. But I get the feeling though that you probably very much mandislike seeing women with hairy legs.
And women can’t?
How often do you see women walking around with their fully natural hairy legs on display?
I get the feeling we might be talking at cross purposes here, just to clarify, could you please briefly explain what you believe the terms ‘patriarchal society’ and ’ social norms’ to mean?
You’re asserting that society demands that women remove their body hair to look like kids.
You won’t take an argument that there’s a billion reasons for that action, and reduced half the human population to one will that only you happen to be able to fully know.
I don’t think I care to humour your request.
That’s very clearly not the reason though, as those same beauty standards emphasize post-pubescent secondary sexual characteristics a lot too (big boobs, hips, butts, full lips).
The common thread seems to be just a way to hyper-differentiate from masculinity. In this patriarchal binary beauty standard, the most non-masculine woman is the same as the most feminine (assuming they also have those secondary sexual characteristics, otherwise you dip into androgeny). Basically, if you already have feminine qualities, then less man=more woman. It’s why tall or more muscular women are seen as less feminine, not because they aren’t childlike FFS.
Men have more body hair, therefore manlier men are hairier, and by extension the more feminine women have the least body hair.
Patriarchal society values youth and beauty in women above all else, and the older a girl gets, the hairier she becomes.
Individual aesthetic reasons for hair removal on female bodies are valid, but these choices are still being made within the society we live in and are often still made in order to conform to it.
I’m not so quick to immediately jump on the “omg it’s pedophilia!” bandwagon. It’s lazy and needlessly inflammatory. If everything is pedophilia than nothing is pedophilia. That’s a charge we should reserve for very rare occasions.
Certainly not when the null hypothesis works just fine. Male and female beauty standards are cultural, but they’re not completely arbitrary. They’re mostly just exaggerated versions of actual physical sex differences. Women on average have fuller lips than men. So we wear lipstick to accentuate this. Men tend to go bald more often, so women’s beauty standards contrasts this by tending towards long and highly styled hair. Men traditionally go for short haircuts or no hair at all, again accentuating male secondary sex characteristics. Women on average tend to have less body hair then men. So women’s beauty standards tend to encourage its complete removal.
Beauty standards are subjective, but they’re not just pulled arbitrarily from a hat. No one ever sat down one day, spun a big wheel and said, “ok, by spin of the wheel, women have to shave their bodies but get to have long hair!” Beauty standards are largely just exaggerations of actual biological sex differences.
I didn’t mention pedophillia. The only people bringing up pedo shit are the ones who haven’t understood what I wrote and are angry because they saw the word ‘patriarchy’.
YOU LITERALLY DID! And now you’re trying to weasel your way out of it by saying, “well, I didn’t explicitly use the word pedophilia, I just implied men are attracted to the features of pre-pubescent children.” There is a word for an adult that is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children. That word is pedophile. You are literally arguing that female beauty standards are pedophilic.
I just don’t like hair in my mouth, fuck off.
And you are valid in your preference. So are women who chose to remove their body hair for whatever reasons. Nothing I wrote has stated otherwise.
Your gut reaction here says a lot more about you than it does me.
No, you’re just making a lot of assumptions about people without actually knowing anything about the stuff you seem to think you’re an expert on. “patriarchal society” doesn’t want women to look prepubescent, people just have preferences for about 1 million different reasons, that don’t necesarily have anything to do with pre pubescence. By blaming patriarchal society, you’re insinuating that men are the problem, and that men in general want to fuck children. So I will say again, fuck off, and add, get a grip.
I never said any of this. Literally nothing I wrote implied any of the stuff you are saying here.
All the dumb fucks bringing up man hating and pedo shit, are the people who got triggered when they saw the word patriarchy and forgot how to fucking read.
I mean the world do be patriarchal. Don’t deny that. But the prepubescence thing is batshit crazy indeed
What a thoroughly dumb take.
Empty glasses have nothing in them.
Glasses of piss have piss in them.
When you pour yourself a glass of water it’s because you secretly want to drink piss.
Man, now everybody knows my secret to being able to drink water. It taste disgusting but if you imagine it’s sweet sweet piss then suddenly everything’s gravy.
Mmmmm, piss gravy 🤤 homer simpson drooling noises
That’s basically me but imagine it with a beard and an erection.
I’ll try not to…
Now I’m trying really hard not too, oh god!
It gets better. Now imagine it with the personality and vocalization of Ned Flanders.
“Ned Flanders” and “Erection” is breaking my brain right now 😵
Do you get to decide the proper hairstyle for every class of person?