• WoodScientist@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    I’m not so quick to immediately jump on the “omg it’s pedophilia!” bandwagon. It’s lazy and needlessly inflammatory. If everything is pedophilia than nothing is pedophilia. That’s a charge we should reserve for very rare occasions.

    Certainly not when the null hypothesis works just fine. Male and female beauty standards are cultural, but they’re not completely arbitrary. They’re mostly just exaggerated versions of actual physical sex differences. Women on average have fuller lips than men. So we wear lipstick to accentuate this. Men tend to go bald more often, so women’s beauty standards contrasts this by tending towards long and highly styled hair. Men traditionally go for short haircuts or no hair at all, again accentuating male secondary sex characteristics. Women on average tend to have less body hair then men. So women’s beauty standards tend to encourage its complete removal.

    Beauty standards are subjective, but they’re not just pulled arbitrarily from a hat. No one ever sat down one day, spun a big wheel and said, “ok, by spin of the wheel, women have to shave their bodies but get to have long hair!” Beauty standards are largely just exaggerations of actual biological sex differences.

    • ᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.social
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      14 hours ago

      I didn’t mention pedophillia. The only people bringing up pedo shit are the ones who haven’t understood what I wrote and are angry because they saw the word ‘patriarchy’.

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        14 hours ago

        The norm in this society is for women to remove their body hair in order for their bodies to resemble, at least in this aspect, those of prepubescent children.

        YOU LITERALLY DID! And now you’re trying to weasel your way out of it by saying, “well, I didn’t explicitly use the word pedophilia, I just implied men are attracted to the features of pre-pubescent children.” There is a word for an adult that is sexually attracted to pre-pubescent children. That word is pedophile. You are literally arguing that female beauty standards are pedophilic.