• Dirtboy@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    I will ensure I lift the seat before I go, you ensure you lower the seat before you go.

    We can both be responsible!

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      2 hours ago

      Yeah whenever you flush paricles fly everywhere with ot up so if you have uncovered toothbrushes they get a peppering of poo.

  • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Everyone closes the lid completely when they’re done. Problem solved. Equality established. World peace flourishes.

    • Crozekiel@lemmy.zip
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      Toilet has lid for a reason, to cover it when not in use. I am constantly flabbergasted that more people don’t get that. Do they leave the mayo lidless in the fridge too because it makes it easier to make a sandwich??

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        The lid is only for blocking the toilet if you are about to risk dropping something in there accidentally. If you aren’t doing anything complicated in the bathroom or need to sit or stand on the lid for some reason, it’s just in the way.

        Otherwise, keep the lid up and the seat down for quick access in diarrhea situations.

        If you have pets ymmv.

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      9 hours ago

      That’s what I do but my sister said it can evidently grow mold on the seat cover if you don’t use it for a few days :(

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        5 hours ago

        We keep the lids down on our toilets to keep the dogs and cats out of them. Never seen mold growing on them at all. We have plastic, slow-close lids though. Maybe regular lids are more prone to that?

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          I hadn’t had issues either but a lot of people seem to. I don’t have wooden, only plastic, so maybe that is why.

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        It’s true, the bathroom connected to our guest bedroom doesn’t get a lot of use. We keep that lid up with the bathroom door closed (to keep the cats out of the water) to avoid the mold. I’ve never encountered that problem on a toilet used even once a week though.

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      9 hours ago

      My wife and I just have separate bathrooms. We’re both nesters, so sharing wasn’t working.

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      5 hours ago

      Habit and expectation can be powerful things. Also, our brains often fills in what we expect to see. A quick, peripheral glance at the toilet while expecting to see it in one state (seat down, lid up, for example) could leave one thinking they did see it in that state when in fact they didn’t get a proper look at it.

    • Malyca@lemmy.zip
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      9 hours ago

      People that are used to living alone or with other women. Established habit and all that jazz.

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      12 hours ago

      When you wake up having to pee in the middle of the night and don’t want to turn the light on

      Also in general, as someone with a vulva, my mental model of a toilet is that the seat only is up for cleaning.

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      16 hours ago

      I did it one time when I woke up at 3am to pee. Had to keep the light off to not wake the Mrs.

      It wasn’t fun. But it wasn’t life ending. I got a nightlight for the bathroom after that.

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      I’ve always said if a person sits on a toilet with the seat up it’s a failure on two parts.

      Yes the previous user should’ve put the seat down but who tf just plops ass first onto something without looking first?

      At that point you get what you deserve, a wet stinky ass.

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      15 hours ago

      As a dude that has 2 sons that just piss everywhere, I’ve always told them to just pee sitting down. There’s no shame in it fellas.

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    I mean… you should put the lid (not just the seat) down before you flush every time regardless to reduce the airborne particles.

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    20 hours ago

    Ah yes, the constant struggle of pushing a boulder… downhill.