Wdym take my own advice? That’s not how this works

  • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
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    21 hours ago

    Too late, I transitioned, and now I breast boobily with my tits out front. Also my boobs were there. I still exist though.

    • BJW@lemmus.org
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      20 hours ago

      Having boobs is excellent justification for continued existence.

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      8 hours ago

      The original order is much more fun, too.

      Well, iron tablets are kinda mid, but still important sometimes

    • WFH@lemmy.zip
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      17 hours ago

      It is!

      But Jinja syntax sucks ass. At least you can do some powerful macro fuckery standard SQL could only dream of.

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      20 hours ago

      Deep breath therapy and cock & ball torture are wildly different, but perhaps they can be combined into a single activity that is far more effective than either on its own. 🤔

      • Kowowow@lemmy.ca
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        20 hours ago

        Well controlled breathing seems important in child birth and that’s painful so it would either help or make both less effective

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          17 hours ago

          Both CBT and DBT are types of therapy that exist, so I see no reason to assume whoever wrote this didn’t mean what they wrote.

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          17 hours ago

          Probably not. DBT is based off CBT but has some additional elements that can be super helpful for some people.

          My wife is currently in it for PTSD and it’s doing things for her that CBT would struggle with. It can also do everything CBT does, speaking as someone who had great benefits from CBT.

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            17 hours ago

            I wasn’t aware of DBT as a therapy form until this comment chain, honestly, so I think I saw the original and assumed it was intended to be CBT but a typo got in the way.

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              Yeah it’s less well known, I mostly originally knew about it because of my history of interaction with folks who have borderline personality disorder (it was originally developed to treat it). And yeah one of the really big things it does that cbt doesn’t is working on emotional control with stuff like building distress tolerance.

              It’s definitely no fun, my wife is really not enjoying it, but it is really helping her.

              I generally encourage anyone whose struggling with destructive thoughts/behavior or ptsd to give it a consideration

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              Yeah from everything I’ve heard from folks who need it it’s absolutely life-changing. My wife is definitely not enjoying it, but after only a few months we’re seeing real improvements beyond what talk therapy had done for her (it had also been helpful).

              And that’s just for ptsd, a former friend with bpd went from destructive to themselves and those around them to significantly less so (they were still in treatment when we wound up going in different directions).