Okay so why the hate towards cucks? I have known cucks and even been the guy who was fuckkng their girlfriend. None of em were conservative.
They were actually really down to earth dudes who just had a kink.
On top of they had great sex lives. The cuck thing was just a small part of it. Their woman wasn’t unhappy either. And no not like “I’m getting filled by a bigger cock” Type of happy. But the “we are secure in our relationship and can do things like this with out being jealous.”
Seriously. What’s the deal with the hate on the poor folks. Hell being a cuck can be a female thing to. My partner loves the idea of me being with another woman.
Edit: appreciate the answers y’all. Knew Lemmy would have folks who had clear thoughts on it.
because they are shitty and weird and annoying.
like poly people, they can’t help but let everyone know about their sex life.
i was part of a few communities on reddit that get kept harassed my cucks, who would systematically come into the space and blast everyone via DM if they would like to fuck their wife, or make repeated posts about how awesome being a cuck was and how everyone else should do it.
Shoving your kinks and sexuality down other people’s throats is disgusting and weird behaviour, and a lot of kinksters and alt-lifestylers repeatedly do it as some sort of weird performative thing and like then get off on the backlash and play the ‘but you’re kink shaming me!’ victimhood card.
not to mention I’ve been bull solicited and the negative reaction I got when I decline was insanely inappropriate.
Because conservative griftlords, MRAs, and toxic incels push the idea that Real MenTM should maintain exclusive access to their girlfriend’s pussy like it’s the Cave of Wonders or some shit. And so they’ve been calling people “cucks” like it’s an insult for over a decade now because conservatives are stupid.
Nah. I don’t own my partner’s pussy, but we have been together for over a decade now. We have learned to talk about EVERYTHING. So that we don’t cross and boundaries we have put down.
I think most folks don’t even think about talking. We talked for 3 years before we ever did anything with anyone. We roleplayed it with toys and porn. Etc etc.
The first step is communication. Most folks dive head first without considering how they might actually feel.
Insecure people hate them for conquering their demons
I think a big part of the issue is people who don’t know the varieties and genres of cuck style porn. There are many people like you’ve mentioned who play with others without jealousy, but I think many of them would go with the label hotwife/hothusband or stag/vixen or even just swingers.
The humiliation, jealousy, and racist aspects are mostly tied to specific types that call themselves specifically cuck porn instead of some other variant, and that’s I think what most people are associating with it.
Ah I gotcha. See for me, I’m not jealous. I’m also not ashamed of myself. My genetics gave me a bit more than average.
I can have a mfm or fmf encounter without it ruining my relationship. Which is fun.
Racist parts ya. Definitely see that. They do treat black men like objects, which I really never thought about until now.
Will say I have had better times with a black man than a white man. Not for any stereotype shit, but for me, imo, white men tend to run their mouths and act like they are king shit. Black men are just chill about it. That’s just what I’ve run into so far though.
I agree with you on the jealousy part. I was just commenting that I think many of the people who are not jealous in the way we seem to be, would use different terms to describe themselves, because the word’cuck’ is so associated with porn that focuses on jealousy and humiliation over just enjoying your partner being with someone else.
Sorry about that. I tend to vomit words. It’s nice to have conversations with mature folks. I appreciate your input!
I’m not sure I would qualify what you’re talking about as “cucking” simply BECAUSE of the negative connotations that word has. I would think that terms like open relationship, or group sex, or swinging, are better descriptors for what you describe. But “cucking” has connotations of nonconsent, a party that MUST not participate, and of humiliation.
Yeah, I’m polyamorous and it’s definitely not cucking. I’ve long been open to being a bull for another sapphic couple, but my wife and I’s nonmonogamy is important to us, but emotionally neutral. By contrast, cucking is a form of humiliation play, and I just don’t feel any of that when my wife is sleeping with someone else
That said, while to some people cucking has nonconsent implications, for the people into the kink it’s consensual but playing with humiliation, jealousy, etc. In some ways it’s often a consensual nonconsent version of being cheated on.
As someone with a simmilar deal as the comment you’re replying to: you are 100% right
Nah cuckold fetish is consensual and it’s included with the dudes getting cheating on.
You can repeat that all you want, but it’s not how most people use it
Yes, it is lmao. That’s the name for the dude in the literal cuck chair.
People use the term cuck as an insult to insinuate that they have no power in their relationship and their partner forces them to watch them fuck someone else.
It may not be the actual definition, but that’s the definition the masses have given it. Language changes and words and phrases can even have multiple valid definitions. A famous one would be cunt, in which the usage of the word greatly changes it’s definition.
God this cuck has cucked his own brain so hard he doesn’t even understand that neither fetish labels or insults are necessarily literal
You do you but the fact stands most men find it humiliating and disgusting to watch their partner cream herself in fits of ecstacy while she gets ploughed out by a bigger cock. Society will always sneer at outgroup behaviour, it is almost what humans are programmed to do.
Eh. It’s fine if you aren’t into it, but I just think it’s shitty to kink shame folks.
But as someone else said there is the racists side of it for some. Which ya…that’s not okay.
I just find it such a shitty thing to do is to go after what someone might be into.
But at the same time I guess it’s like calling someone a cocksucker. I like sucking dick, but have used it as an insult as well.
Ah to be human right?
Isn’t that why you have a parasocial relationship with an e-girl first?
Is life-cucking a thing?
I mean we do have cucksumerism so yeah this tracks.
Thought that was using ai.
words can have multiple meanings ;)
Unfortunately, the conservative brain is happy to swap in Sister, Mother, or Daughter for the Girlfriend/Wife and just otherwise keep the kink identical. It’s fucked, but sadly real
4chan amiright?
Sorry my dude, you have to be married
And, technically, these days it doesn’t even have to be heterosexual. Unless the alphabet mafia wants their own word for that…
