Oh, post about me. It’s nice to be represented
Nothing ever happens. He rests his case.
Oh hey maybe lets buzz on over to Bumble, where women have to initiate the interaction!
Whats that?
That rarely ever happens and the business is imploding?
Quick! Do an ad campaign calling people nuns in a convent for not using our pay to win subscription service!
Wait, people didn’t like that?
Uh maybe we’re actually just an app for finding friends now, or something… sure yeah we’ll just pretend Discord and Instagram and Tiktok don’t exist, this’ll totally work.
Hrm uh ok, lets try uh… Grindr.
Closeted Republican, closeted Republican, another closeted Republican…
Fuck it.
Into the 4chan dating app, at least that one works about as well as you’d expect it to; openly deranged maniacs with no filter = low chance of being misled.
And there are no paywalls!
If you want to make a dating app that actually works, actually reliably produces what the user is looking for… you need to call out the user on their own bullshit. You need to actually tell them ‘your profile says you are looking for this, your actual history on this platform indicates otherwise’.
Well I mean… the datings apps know that, they just don’t tell you. They keep that info for themselves, and then leverage the difference between the gap there to keep you on the platform for as long as possible, by matching together people who are lying to each other and themselves in approximately the same way.
the women i have met on apps are no different than the ones i met on the internet generally, or the ones I met in college or in real life.
It’s almost as if the issue is people themselves, not the tech.
at least in USA, we live in a culture that worships ourselves above all else, and that’s not a very good mindset for dating and relationships, or starting families.
The dating apps are definitely not optimized for user dating success.
That said, a lot of people self sabotage in their dating life. The apps aren’t going to put in a lot of effort to stop you from doing that.
dating apps cannot optimize dating dude. your entire premise is false.
stop buying into the techno evangelism that technology can solve human emotional and behavioral problems. it can’t.
I don’t blame people for avoiding dating apps as a way to meet people. It feels like putting yourself up at the store. It’s exhausting.
I already met all my possible partners in my town. Time to move to NY
You cannot afford to move to NY.
NYC isn’t cheap but sometimes you get what you pay for. But yeah, $2000/mo rent is probably eye popping for a lot of people. You save a lot by not having a car, though. Or roommates can also cut the cost.
… The economy has not been hiring anyone in substantial numbers for years, job growth has consistently been trailing just actual working age population growth.
The tech sector is massively laying people off, for the last few years.
If you’re gonna move to NY, that means you’re not very likely to find a well paying inperson job, or be able to keep your remote job.
Right now, Zillow lists 220 studio apartments under $2000 a month, in NYC.
220
City has a population of about 8.5 million people. Median household income is ~82k.
2000 x 3 x 12 = 72,000.
The median household in New York City only makes 10k a year more (before taxes) than what is the safe minimum to afford a studio apartment.
So uh yeah, yeah, you’re gonna need roommates.
And I’m sure it will just be easy to move to an entirely new city and just win the roommate lottery, find ones that are responsible, reliable, low drama.
In summary, moving to NYC in pursuit of its theoretical dating pool is a wonderful way to become homeless.
Yeah, since mamdamis extra 2nd house tax I won’t be able to afford my 5th Sunday house there
I’m sorry, do you think that taxes on unoccupied homes… make homes… more expensive, overall?
You increase supply, which correspondingly lowers prices, by punishing homes that are mostly vacant, most of the time.
Oh and also the revenue from said tax can go toward things like making housing less expensive for the very poor, poor, and middle income folks.
Here, for you: /s
Ok, you definitely do not have the social skills to survive in NYC very long.
~10 years on dating sites this is me for sure. Except I never touched tinder, I want a site with profiles and more than just swipe. Plus I’m way too unattractive for swipe only apps lol
plot twist:
insert gay dating app here
Why do you think he would have better chances there?
because men would fuck a hole in a tree if it looks at them funny
Don’t be so dismissive about how sexy some trees are.
They don’t call em pussy willows for nothing.
Man Here I can confirm.
Point taken.
