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  • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zonetomemes@lemmy.worldIt really do be like that
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    12 hours ago

    Had a middle-aged coworker that I carpooled with occasionally when I was younger. Totally chill for the most part, we left early in the morning and generally just listened to the radio quietly.

    He offered to get me coffee while we were on the road one day. Pulled into a bikini barista drive-thru. The gal working asked if I was his daughter.

    I didn’t carpool with him after that lol




  • Are you looking to be offended by my stance here? Smh, you want to be a victim of my feminism so bad, don’t you?

    I think it’s rude to comment on people’s faces and especially so when men decide to comment publicly on a woman’s face to the point of using AI to alter her image to further disparage her.

    If you went up to someone and told them you thought it was sad that they got plastic surgery and you think they ruined their face, you really don’t think that would be rude to do?




  • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zonetome_irl@lemmy.worldme irl
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    6 days ago

    Hahahaha yeah yeah, you first, my dude. I’m sure you’ve never done ANYTHING that you regretted or was influenced by outside pressures.

    I’m just so thrilled that all the Lemmy users here are making fun of a woman’s face. It’s such a good use of your time and energy.

    Certainly choosing to be respectful of how another person looks would be doing the hard thing?







  • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zonetomemes@lemmy.worldStill right
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    15 days ago

    Humans are pretty bad at communication and there are a bunch of different ways a joke like that could have landed and it’s all dependent on the people involved.

    One person’s joke to gently point out that their kid is probably grabbing too much stuff can easily be another person’s brusque and dismissive comment about their kid being lazy.

    I’m sorry that your feelings were hurt by your mom.