I think you meant snob, and in all fairness I am snobby, but only when an expectation has been set. If I’m paying US $300 or more for a dinner for 2 then I’m going to expect that my waiter knows exactly when to come over and ask if I need another martini.
I see you’ve never been to a nice restaurant.
Exactly.
You’re never interrupted. A good waiter will keep an eye on your table and will notice things like how fast you drink your soda, for example, and if it’s 3/4 gone and you’re only halfway through your burger they’ll come to your table and ask if you’d like more. They don’t randomly appear and ask if you need another soda refill.
I don’t want my waiter to leave me alone. I want them to be attentive to my every need. A good waiter knows how to appear just when they’re needed.
The thing is that everyone should have had a specific role and they didn’t. One guy said they were all kind of responsible for everything jointly. You can’t use this type of system for an activity like this. One person has to be specifically responsible for securely attaching that rope to her ankles.
While falling out of a window.