Well, I’ll admit I’m older and perhaps less sensitive to that notion than I should be - particularly as I never heard that term until the past decade or so. There are times when I can definitely see the issue, and then there’s times like this that I just don’t - or just think the sensitivity towards the topic is being taken too far beyond reasonable expectations. Guess we’ll have to agree to disagree on the point.

Oh, and maybe you should consider not thinking of the term “OCD” as an insult. Maybe that’s where our difference in perspectives lie: I simply don’t consider it an insult, but what it actually is: a mental condition (or perhaps it’s more accurate to say it’s a symptom that’s indicative of one). People are okay talking about depression, ADHD, etc. - why not the same for OCD?

It’s a factual condition, not an insult - unless someone decides to make it one, which unfortunately happens all the time. Some people use the word “Jew” as a slur - does that then make all utterances of the word a slur? No, that’s absurd. Intent matters, and the same applies with any other words/terms like OCD.

I suggest listening to and/or watching some early George Carlin routines like Class Clown. Much of his comedy was based upon how words are used and interpreted.

1. BECAUSE it was a “minor correction” made in a context where most would not consider it important or even germane as it was a casual conversation, not a classroom or office setting.

2. Again, you chose the harshest possible interpretation with “accuse” - as if I were attacking, berating, or belittling them. I didn’t say anything aggressive like “Who cares? Take your OCD issues & stuff it where the sun don’t shine!” (I’m sure worse could be said, too - I’m just not thinking in such a manner.)

3. I (and many others, it seems to me) find it better to be accepting and honest of one’s own faults - more trust and respect is earned from others that way, as well as gaining a level of self-confidence from facing your demons. If the person who I was addressing actually has an issue with OCD (or any other mental divergence from “the norm”), then acknowledging and accepting that fact is commonly understood to be the first step towards taking control of it. If they don’t have such an issue (or think they don’t), then being made aware of how their actions come off to others isn’t a bad thing, either.

Either way, accepting the facts of how others perceive you, and being able to laugh about how absurd or silly those interpretations can sometimes can be shows that you don’t take yourself or others too seriously, and that you know who you are and are comfortable with it. IMHO, this is a level of maturity everyone should try to reach as soon as they can because once you have that larger perspective on the world, the easier it becomes to work with it.

As I said, it was not an insult - that you choose to interpret it that way is on you.

Also I wonder if you’re so deeply insecure that you spend your time trying to find ways to look down upon others to momentarily make yourself feel smug and superior. The problem with that approach is that it’s like being addicted to drugs: the effect doesn’t last, and becomes weaker every time - so you wind up doing it more and more in a pointless effort to regain the same high as the first time you did it, which only serves to make you seem like more and more of an asshole.

Oh, get over yourself. It was in no way an insult unless you’re looking for it to be one. We all have our challenges - some more significant than others, of course - which makes being able to laugh at ourselves an important means of relieving the stress of those challenges.

I have ADD, depression, & some other mental challenges of my own. My spouse has several physical health issues (which cause additional mental health issues). Nobody understands or cares & we just have to deal with it.

I get the sensitivity to an extent, but you need to learn to distinguish between malicious intent versus those just trying not to take things too seriously (or in this case, trying to encourage someone else not to). None of us are perfect, and that includes you.

The important thing is that we try our best to not only get through this crappy excuse for a life ourselves, but also to help others do so when we can. My attempt to inject some mild humor into a situation where someone was being a bit overly condescending, while also having fun with the accidental double-post of a comment was just that - some light-heated poking of fun at something being taken too seriously.

Well… if you get really good at what you do, then it’s often said that you “have it down to a science.”

^ This is a pendantic person with OCD ensuring that they’ve done their thing.

EDIT: fix erroneous spelling. I’d say it’ll teach me to do this stuff when I’m too tired, but we all know that wouldn’t be true.

^ This is a pendantic person doing their thing.

EDIT: fix erroneous spelling. I’d say it’ll teach me to do this stuff when I’m too tired, but we all know that wouldn’t be true.

Pretty much covers the entirety of the “thought” processes behind the current administration.

No, I’ve had similar experiences. If your experiences/perspectives are considerably outside the norm, many “shrinks” - who likely are among “the norm” - just don’t get it. Never mind there’s always some who are just there for the money - my mother was quite happy with hers because he told her what she wanted to hear, which ultimately caused more harm than good.

EDIT: Political/religious leanings also often play into how things go.

The denial of the patient’s assumption indicated by the word “no” should have steered you towards the proper/intended interpretation.

“Sounds good” in language is usually something you’re used to hearing, so it “sounds good” because you’ve already heard it that way & are used to it. Doesn’t help one lick for those not already deeply immersed in hearing the language routinely.

The German language has three forms of the word “the” - the two genders, and neutral. As a kid living in Germany for a while, this gave me fits - things like doors, tables, windows, etc. are gendered, but I’ll be damned if I could ever figure out any pattern to predict which would get which gender (or neutral).

Kinda difficult to schedule “hard” times, tho…

I’m well past that. Just throw me in the incinerator now, I guess…