• LePoisson@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      Never worth it.

      Worth noting, by all means have some mind blowing sex with the crazy women but don’t marry them.

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        1 hour ago

        Narcissists don’t work that way. If they like you enough to have sex with you, good chance you saying no in the future will hurt their ego and now you got a stalker who will tell your family, friends and police all sorts of nonsense to attempt to trap you.

        It’s never worth it.

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          38 minutes ago

          Well, I was making a joke. Obviously people should be careful with who they share themselves with and use their best judgment.

          Also I’m sorry for whoever hurt you, I’m not going through your account history but based on this comment it sounds like maybe you had to deal with some narcissist bullshit first hand. Me too, so best of luck and hopefully it has or will get better.

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            23 minutes ago

            Haha it’s not me, it’s a buddy of mine who ignored all warnings and started hooking up with her. But she has dragged in people from my social circle, involved children, authorities, etc. It’s a lot of stress just being involved second hand.

            Just really serious with my warnings because too many people think “I can change her/him” or “Its just this one time, it won’t matter”. Narcissists are super dangerous to deal with and will metaphorically burn the world around them to get what they believe they deserve. Much like the current US president.