• Rug_Pisser@piefed.zip
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    3 days ago

    36 years is long enough to have started something to try and fix the foundations though. Like some kind of ground stabilising cementitious grout injection.

    Maybe try that with your life?

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      3 days ago

      Only if you haven’t surrounded yourself with other like them. The thing about discovering how screwed up your family is involves distancing yourself from them. The more you discover how those silences you experience with others are them being shocked at your fun family stories is a real eye opener.