I read a book about cutting ties to toxic people. I wrote a list and included my parents. Absolute night and day on my mental health and my professional health.
I didn’t “cut them” like full on ghosting. But keeping my distance and chatting with them once a year.
Thanks! I ended up homeless twice because of them. Once at 19, and now again at 22 years old. I mean, I’m in a nice emergency shelter with my own bedroom and cooked meals, but still.
At least my family cares if I have a roof over my head, even if I had to couch surf at a friend’s house and hide from the landlord and then come into this shelter again (they gave me a place last time, too). I slept in the basement during the last night before coming to this shelter again, just to take extra precautions.
Mind you, I’m not a criminal beyond jaywalking and streaming media for free. Not to toot my own horn, but I’m one of the most straitlaced people at this place. I don’t smoke/vape (beyond the once in a blue moon hit of weed), I don’t drink alcohol, no other drugs, I don’t drink coffee, no energy drinks, and I’m not known for getting into fights.
Honestly, this is very validating to hear since I’m about to cut contact with my mother and elder siblings.
I read a book about cutting ties to toxic people. I wrote a list and included my parents. Absolute night and day on my mental health and my professional health.
I didn’t “cut them” like full on ghosting. But keeping my distance and chatting with them once a year.
I’m rooting for your success.
Thank you :). I’m living in an emergency shelter, so I appreciate all the support.
Thats a hard decision to make, congrats on having the courage to take that step in your life.
Thanks! I ended up homeless twice because of them. Once at 19, and now again at 22 years old. I mean, I’m in a nice emergency shelter with my own bedroom and cooked meals, but still.
At least my family cares if I have a roof over my head, even if I had to couch surf at a friend’s house and hide from the landlord and then come into this shelter again (they gave me a place last time, too). I slept in the basement during the last night before coming to this shelter again, just to take extra precautions.
Mind you, I’m not a criminal beyond jaywalking and streaming media for free. Not to toot my own horn, but I’m one of the most straitlaced people at this place. I don’t smoke/vape (beyond the once in a blue moon hit of weed), I don’t drink alcohol, no other drugs, I don’t drink coffee, no energy drinks, and I’m not known for getting into fights.