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  • VitoRobles@lemmy.todaytome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    6 days ago

    Absolutely! For the social workers, Some of the homework came off like… Surface level? Like “Name a time you felt sad” and “Have you ever felt depressed?”

    I’m 40, not an elementary school child. I went through two financial crisis, the president called a woman reporter a bitch just a week ago and got away with pedophilia, my healthcare expenses is over $20k a year, and I’m in fear of my friends and neighbors who aren’t mayonnaise colored.

    Totally agree with being secretive. That’s normal. It takes a lot of trust to get me to go beyond “I feel sad because I didn’t have any oat milk for my coffee” or whatever.

    That’s what great therapists do. They drill with really perceptive questioning, they know when to push for clarity, they know when to change topics to lower your guard to lead you to discovery.


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    7 days ago

    I used Betterhelp during the pandemic. I had two really good therapists (actual trained therapists) and three really bad ones who were just social workers who were just dialing it in.

    The therapists who were good were great at just asking questions and having me come to my own conclusions. They guide you to clarity.

    The shitty social workers just gave me homework. They were following whatever 8-step program they were taught in night school.

    Not saying every social worker sucks. Maybe they work for a lot of people.


  • I was thinking about this last year as America is being clowned by out-of-state actors and why it happens:

    If you paid somebody in the US to shit-talk the Yellow team in say (and I’m picking a country at random) Romania, and promote the Blue team instead… They’d probably do it. Even if it’s something insignificant like $50 a week. The US person has zero interest in the politics of Romania.

    Fire off a few tweets like “Yellow team again failing people.” Or “Blue team, true patriots”, upvote some diversive shit, repost some memes, and easy money.

    This is happening every day for cheap.

    Mix in some AI bots, and for a few thousand dollars, you recreated Twitter’s racist/hate shit that controls the narrative.