Anarchy is very cool, until someone has the wrong opinion.

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    22 hours ago

    what’s frustrating the most is how people hate you for factual true opinions, because those truths don’t align with their delusional worldview.

    true, it’s ultimately about popularity. And what’s popular… is often stupid, wrong, and cruel. Dialectical behavior won’t do anything when you are getting harassed and assaulted, and increasingly we live in a world where people are become not just disagreeing and segregating, but straight up calling violent and bloodthirsty to those they disagree with.

    Lemmy is rife with very pro-violence people. Who also claim they are anti-violence. But you know, only anti-violence against the ‘good’ people. Violence totally col against the ‘bad’ people.

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      19 hours ago

      factual true opinions

      oh god that’s it; you’re an utterly insufferable person. And learning how to constructively approach injustice by conserving and directing your energy towards actions that will make the most real difference is a core goal of the therapy. Either put in the effort to become someone people want to be around or accept people don’t want to be around you.

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        19 hours ago

        right, so if an external reality gets in the way of my feelings, I should simple ignore and or deny that it exists? if someone makes me feel bad they are bad person! such a constructive and mature way to approach other people.

        I have no problem being around people who acknowledge there is a world outside of themselves. I don’t get along with people who think the world is merely an extension of their feelings, or that any information that doesn’t make them feel fuzzy is horrible and evil.

        I mean i’m glad you don’t think facts exist or reality exists outside of the thoughts in your head, and therefore nobody else is real, but most well-adjusted people don’t engage in solipsism. If the acknowledgement of other people existing who are different than you is so painful, the issue isn’t them. It’s you.

        also calling for violence isn’t a constructive approach injustice, it’s authoritarianism and bullying. just like you resorted to harassment and name calling in reply to my comment, per ad hominem nonsense because I said something you find upsetting and dislike. you can’t create ‘justice’ by perpetuating injustice on other people, but if you live in a world of your own emotions, nothing like justice even exists. because justice isn’t a feeling, it’s a concept that is suppose to get you outside of your own monkey-brain way of thinking.