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  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldtome_irl@lemmy.worldMe_irl
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    5 days ago

    Let’s give credit where credit is due: this one is a W for you.

    In my personal experience, I find knocking out small tasks (like folding laundry, putting laundry away — yes they are two tasks) is a great way to build up momentum for bigger things, but not always. And that’s okay. My goal every day is to do at least one thing. Just one. If I do more than one then I have exceeded expectations. Keep pushing! 👊






  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldStill right
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    14 days ago

    I used to sleep in class. But only after doing all of my work. I had ONE teacher who agreed that as long as the work got done, and I wasn’t disturbing anybody else, she would let me sleep.

    ~Of course she was a first year teacher, so she probably didn’t know better.~







  • The problem isn’t so much about things becoming problems once they affect a person, it’s often that these people were never exposed to things affecting them personally before they became adults.

    I am of the opinion that empathy develops best when people are exposed to life (for this exercise you are welcome to define “life” how you see fit).

    While I have not personally been mistreated for my gender or race, and I have never had anybody murdered or abducted in my personal life, I have had a lot of other Bad Things™ happen to me that has developed a healthy sense of empathy. I can then use that empathy and apply it to those other situations. It’s like the analogy of lifting weights can train you to pick up and move heavy things (not just barbells).

    People like this have led what I believe to be very sheltered lives. Maybe they were spoiled, never told no, whatever. As far as they ever knew the horribleness of the world only happened to other people (in books, papers, movies, and TV shows), who they were taught were deserving of such things, and that it would never happen to them regardless pf anything.

    None of this is meant to excuse anyone’s behavior or lack of empathy. Never would I suggest such a thing. But it may help your sanity in having a possible understanding of how it might happen in the first place.

    It may not; I am not presuming to know you or how you will react to anything I’ve just said.

    YMMV.



  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldMap Lie
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    2 months ago

    But most of the land that are considered continents are connected to one or kore other land, and thus couldn’t be defined as an island.

    Though, after reading a few other comments, it seems the definition of what makes a continent a continent is apparently subject to debate.

    ~This is why we can’t have nice things.~