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  • You mean spam trap? Outside of 2FA or a few other small things, which even those are using it less. Who actively engages with it on a regular basis.

    And those that do actively engage with it are often using HTML hypertext interfaces. (Proton Gmail etc)

    My first paragraph was a direct response to these sentences.

    It’s easy to imagine a world without email. So many other apps and services easily slot in to replace it. And already have in many places. Now, try to imagine a world without HTML or HTTP servers. What would that even look like?

    My second and third paragraphs were a direct response to this.

    My generalized interpretation of your comment was that laypeople don’t use email anymore, their only interaction with the internet is through HTTP, and HTTP is the only internet protocol that could not be easily replaced.

    My counter argument was that laypeople in the business world absolutely still use email daily, almost always through a client like Outlook, and there are a number of other protocols with varying degrees of usage (among laypeople and enthusiasts) that would also be very difficult to replace.

    I apologize if I misunderstood your comment, but hopefully this clarifies my point and intentions.









  • aMockTie@piefed.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldSafety
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    16 days ago

    I know this obviously wasn’t your intention, but you managed to encapsulate the attitude of my ex and her family to the letter.

    I grew up with food insecurity and poverty, she came from wealth. My family was always open and honest about our thoughts and feelings, her family had strict expectations and roles.

    Both her and her mom would constantly engineer situations where I would be forced to prove my masculinity, regardless of how uncomfortable, scared, tired, or belittled I felt. This included things like going out to dinner during a snow storm, moving us from one apartment to another on my own, trying to convince me to physically assault someone else to “defend” her, and purchasing heavy items online that she couldn’t lift and while I was injured.

    In hindsight I can see and understand how toxic that relationship was, but at the time I was excited to be receiving any positive attention from someone I was attracted to (whenever I was able to fit their mold), and didn’t know any better.

    Apologies for the long rant, your comment hit the nail on the head and also apparently triggered those memories for me.