As a kid my friend told me about some vandalism he did. My mom pressured me to tell her if I knew anything about the vandalism and I made her promise not to share it.

Almost immediately she told my sister for pretty much no reason. Then my sister’s boyfriend was getting accused by the police so she told them that I knew something, to which I then had to answer questions to a cop.

I think my friend deserved the juvie time (and his uncle who enabled it the prison time) but it still pissed me off to force me to be questioned like that.

That and many other cases basically taught me my mom is incompetent and can’t be trusted with sensitive information.

If you’re reading this friend, sorry! Not sure what else to say.