Then not reading the reply for two whole weeks because I can’t deal with the thought of a confrontational answer and question myself daily why I sent that fucking message in the first place, only to then run into them out of the blue and they’re absolutely chill and normal and don’t mention the message at all so I finally gather the courage to read the message and it said “wat lol was talking about susan no u xD”

Nope, can’t say I’ve experienced it.