• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    6 hours ago

    You completely missed the point about the children being so close in age.

    It was dangerous and painful for this woman.

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      6 hours ago

      I didn’t address the point because a lot of my family’s old photos look like this. Twins become more common later. But also i expect the actual age gaps represented in this photo might not be so close. The children on the right are likely not children at all.

      Also genetics has to play some part here. Women in my family have relatively few complications in childbirth, and recover more quickly than usual along with their libido apparently, so just a few months between birth and pregnancy is common.

      I’m just trying to offer a plausible alternative explanation that I can vouch for so you don’t have to imagine this nightmare.

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        My father was the fourteenth child out of sixteen siblings. I’m very familiar with this type of family setup.

        Regardless of women who want big families, 16 children is abuse. Both of the mother’s body and of the children as human beings.

        I’ve given birth before as well. It is dangerous to have pregnancies back to back.

        Women didn’t have nearly as much choice back then.

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          5 hours ago

          I fully agree with you re: most of your points, and don’t necessarily disagree otherwise, just trying to not expect the worst of people I don’t know based on a photo <3

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              5 hours ago

              And likewise, I appreciate your vigilance looking out for others who may be oppressed, where bluntness is so often overdue.