Dude… at this point you’re just looking for something to be triggered by. If I open the kitchen door and it hits my SO standing on the other side, that’s not domestic violence, it’s an accident. If my hand gets caught in her hair while we’re messing around that’s not non-consensual hair pulling and sexual assault, it’s an accident.
When accidents happen, you apologise, accept the apology, and keep having fun together.
Accidental means you didn’t have consent. That’s why it’s rapey.
Dude… at this point you’re just looking for something to be triggered by. If I open the kitchen door and it hits my SO standing on the other side, that’s not domestic violence, it’s an accident. If my hand gets caught in her hair while we’re messing around that’s not non-consensual hair pulling and sexual assault, it’s an accident.
When accidents happen, you apologise, accept the apology, and keep having fun together.
No, accidental means accidental.
If it’s not accidental and there’s no consent then you can get triggered.