FWIW if this actually happens it’s more likely the act of sending the message has made the server realise the user is no longer online.
It’s inefficient borderline impractical for a server to send a frequent ping to every single user to check they’re still online, usually it waits for them to perform an action within a certain timeframe and if they don’t then either send the ping to see or just decide they’re offline/away.
If you send a message that doubles as a ping to check
Haha nice try but I’m pretty sure that every single thing I witness is evidence of my (lack of) worth as a person
I once sended my mom a message when she was in the hospital, and instead of reading it, she rather fucking died. I don’t even remember what self worth is.
Me: Wanna play a game?
Op: Sorry, I have to get some stuff done tonight
OP is playing Codblops 4: Extra VinegarSorry friend, I just got online to recharge my social batteries, not drain them further when they’re already near empty.
/me (goes offline)
This except it’s my entire discord server. Everyone chatting away and as soon as I utter one word everyone leaves.
