It’s just a matter of what you did that was out of line, and what she did that was out of line. The amount of useless pieces of shit on this earth is probably less than 3% and I have a hard time believing you’re one of them.
The things you said about your mom clearly indicate she stepped over the line quite a few times and you are absolutely right to feel misunderstood and sometimes attacked.
If she posted here she would probably also indicate that there’s a few times where you treated her wrong.
But she’s your mom, she should know better, and also if you’re fighting a lot things happen, and people do regrettable things. As long as you question whether you did the right thing, you’re fine and you probably have done well.
What I’m trying to say is it doesn’t matter what she thinks, t doesn’t make your feelings less valid.
There’s no sides.
It’s just a matter of what you did that was out of line, and what she did that was out of line. The amount of useless pieces of shit on this earth is probably less than 3% and I have a hard time believing you’re one of them.
The things you said about your mom clearly indicate she stepped over the line quite a few times and you are absolutely right to feel misunderstood and sometimes attacked.
If she posted here she would probably also indicate that there’s a few times where you treated her wrong.
But she’s your mom, she should know better, and also if you’re fighting a lot things happen, and people do regrettable things. As long as you question whether you did the right thing, you’re fine and you probably have done well.
What I’m trying to say is it doesn’t matter what she thinks, t doesn’t make your feelings less valid.