• Tja@programming.dev
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    4 days ago

    Sometimes you need back and forth which over email can take days. You can’t talk while looking at your calendar? Guess what, you say “give me 30 seconds to open my calendar”. Or 60. However much you need. People gaslight or bullshit? You follow up the call with an email “as we discussed on the phone, x y and z, and we agreed not to do a b nor c”. If someone can’t communicate over phone, they just can’t communicate.

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      4 days ago

      Cool. I can text that too. I can do it without saying it to the 17 adjacent apartments or nearby cubicles.

      “as we discussed on the phone…”

      To which they say

      “What the fuck?”

      Or

      “new phone who dis?”

      It’s not helpful

      pithy bitchy ‘no u’ because you’re insecure as fuck

      Wow that explains a lot about why youre like this. Call me if you want to actually communicate, i guess.