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Cake day: July 12th, 2025

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  • I agree. My wife and I fought against separate beds for a long time, but some things went down that required us to have alternate sleep schedules so that forced us to do it.

    That was 12 years ago and we have had separate bedrooms ever since.

    We have since learned that pretty much all of our friends who have been married for significant number of years sleep in separate beds. Sleeping is such an important part of living and a huge impact on QoL. So once you accept that quality sleep is a basic need and not a referendum on the state of the marriage it just solves a set of problems.



  • I too will testify to the power of the CPAP!

    I was diagnosed with Sleep Apena and refused to use it.

    I am not putting that stupid thing on my face at night.

    Well when the MVA told me that if I didn’t show logs of usage I would loose my divers license i started.

    It took one night to convince me it was the greatest thing ever, and I felt so stupid for not using it sooner.

    My wife actually thought something was wrong because I was so “quiet” when I slept.

    Sleep Apena is no bullshit and it is amazing how much it was dragging me down.